A New Match, A New Beginning

Fostering is not just about providing a roof over a child's head--it's about offering stability, consistency, and unconditional support. That’s why our Love Box program is designed not only to meet the immediate needs of foster families with essentials like food and supplies, but also to build lasting, supportive relationships between volunteers and families. The connection made between volunteers and foster parents can make all the difference in helping them continue their important work and reducing the number of moves children in foster care face.

A New Match, A New Beginning

One of our recent match meetups perfectly illustrates the value of community support in the foster care journey. Just a month ago, Hillary, one of our newest dedicated volunteers, was matched with Abi, a foster mom. From the start, there was an immediate sense of connection. Both Hillary and Abi have teaching backgrounds, and that common ground gave them an instant way to relate. Their shared passion for kids and making a difference sparked engaging conversations and helped them form a bond quickly.
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For Hillary, this match was particularly meaningful. She’s considering becoming a foster parent and had many questions about the process. It was inspiring to watch her connect with Abi, who is already an experienced foster parent. Hillary gained valuable insight into what foster care truly looks like, the challenges and rewards it brings, and the importance of having the right kind of support system. For Abi, the opportunity to share her experiences was an empowering reminder of why she chose this path—especially as she balances trying to work and being a full-time mom.

The Importance of Support for Foster Families

It’s no secret that fostering can be overwhelming. Many foster families juggle multiple responsibilities—raising children (often with trauma they are processing), managing jobs, maintaining relationships, and navigating the complexities of the foster care system. Without the right support, it can be difficult to sustain the emotional and physical energy needed to continue fostering. That’s where the Love Box program steps in, offering more than just material support.

When foster families receive consistent help, whether through thoughtful gestures like a meal delivery, a gift card, or simply having a reliable volunteer to talk to, it makes a world of difference in their ability to keep their homes open. The simple act of connecting with someone who understands the challenges of fostering can ease the emotional burden and encourage families to persevere. This support system is critical not just for the caregivers, but for the children in foster care who depend on stability to thrive.

The Impact of Stability on Children in Foster CareFor children in foster care, the lack of a stable, consistent home can have lasting emotional and psychological effects. Every time a child is moved from one foster home to another, they experience disruption—from losing their community, to the trauma of adjusting to new rules, new people, and new environments. Studies have shown that frequent moves can lead to attachment issues, academic challenges, and difficulty trusting adults. The emotional toll can also affect children’s long-term development and wellbeing.

When foster homes stay open longer and are supported by organizations like KCMO Angels, children experience fewer moves, which means they have the opportunity to form deeper, more secure attachments. The consistency of remaining in one home, surrounded by caring adults, allows children to heal, grow, and thrive in a stable environment. This is why our mission is so crucial—not just for the foster parents but for the children who need a steady, loving home.

Making the Match: Connection That Matters

​The match between Hillary and Abi is a perfect example of how powerful a strong support system can be. During their initial meetup, it became clear just how meaningful it is for both foster parents and potential foster parents to have access to the wisdom, encouragement, and understanding that comes from someone who has “been there.”

Abi’s decision to take time off from teaching to care for her children full-time is a testament to her dedication to her family and the impact of having the right support in place. She also serves as a part-time worship director at her church, another way she gives back to her community, but she remains committed to providing stability and nurturing for the children in her care.

Strengthening Foster Families, Strengthening Communities

At KCMO Angels, we know that foster families are the backbone of the foster care system. We are dedicated to supporting these families with resources, love, and most importantly, meaningful relationships that make a difference in their lives. When foster families are supported—whether through our Love Box program or through personal connections with volunteers--children are the true beneficiaries. Fewer moves, fewer disruptions, and more opportunities for healing and growth.

We are so grateful for volunteers like Hillary and foster parents like Abi, who are helping to build stronger, more stable homes for children in need. By continuing to offer these crucial support systems, we can help reduce the number of foster home closures, keep more children in stable homes, and ultimately make a long-term difference in their lives.
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If you are interested in making a difference in the life of a foster family or want to learn more about becoming a volunteer, we invite you to join us at KCMO Angels. Together, we can provide the support foster families need to continue fostering and give children the chance to experience the stability they deserve.