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Fostering is not just about providing a roof over a child's head--it's about offering stability, consistency, and unconditional support. That’s why our Love Box program is designed not only to meet the immediate needs of foster families with essentials like food and supplies, but also to build lasting, supportive relationships between volunteers and families. The connection made between volunteers and foster parents can make all the difference in helping them continue their important work and reducing the number of moves children in foster care face.  A New Match, A New Beginning One of our recent match meetups perfectly illustrates the value of community support in the foster care journey. Just a month ago, Hillary, one of our newest dedicated volunteers, was matched with Abi, a foster mom. From the start, there was an immediate sense of connection. Both Hillary and Abi have teaching backgrounds, and that common ground gave them an instant way to relate. Their shared passion for kids and making a difference sparked engaging conversations and helped them form a bond quickly. For Hillary, this match was particularly meaningful. She’s considering becoming a foster parent and had many questions about the process. It was inspiring to watch her connect with Abi, who is already an experienced foster parent. Hillary gained valuable insight into what foster care truly looks like, the challenges and rewards it brings, and the importance of having the right kind of support system. For Abi, the opportunity to share her experiences was an empowering reminder of why she chose this path—especially as she balances trying to work and being a full-time mom. The Importance of Support for Foster FamiliesIt’s no secret that fostering can be overwhelming. Many foster families juggle multiple responsibilities—raising children (often with trauma they are processing), managing jobs, maintaining relationships, and navigating the complexities of the foster care system. Without the right support, it can be difficult to sustain the emotional and physical energy needed to continue fostering. That’s where the Love Box program steps in, offering more than just material support. When foster families receive consistent help, whether through thoughtful gestures like a meal delivery, a gift card, or simply having a reliable volunteer to talk to, it makes a world of difference in their ability to keep their homes open. The simple act of connecting with someone who understands the challenges of fostering can ease the emotional burden and encourage families to persevere. This support system is critical not just for the caregivers, but for the children in foster care who depend on stability to thrive. The Impact of Stability on Children in Foster CareFor children in foster care, the lack of a stable, consistent home can have lasting emotional and psychological effects. Every time a child is moved from one foster home to another, they experience disruption—from losing their community, to the trauma of adjusting to new rules, new people, and new environments. Studies have shown that frequent moves can lead to attachment issues, academic challenges, and difficulty trusting adults. The emotional toll can also affect children’s long-term development and wellbeing. When foster homes stay open longer and are supported by organizations like KCMO Angels, children experience fewer moves, which means they have the opportunity to form deeper, more secure attachments. The consistency of remaining in one home, surrounded by caring adults, allows children to heal, grow, and thrive in a stable environment. This is why our mission is so crucial—not just for the foster parents but for the children who need a steady, loving home.
Strengthening Foster Families, Strengthening Communities
At KCMO Angels, we know that foster families are the backbone of the foster care system. We are dedicated to supporting these families with resources, love, and most importantly, meaningful relationships that make a difference in their lives. When foster families are supported—whether through our Love Box program or through personal connections with volunteers--children are the true beneficiaries. Fewer moves, fewer disruptions, and more opportunities for healing and growth. We are so grateful for volunteers like Hillary and foster parents like Abi, who are helping to build stronger, more stable homes for children in need. By continuing to offer these crucial support systems, we can help reduce the number of foster home closures, keep more children in stable homes, and ultimately make a long-term difference in their lives. If you are interested in making a difference in the life of a foster family or want to learn more about becoming a volunteer, we invite you to join us at KCMO Angels. Together, we can provide the support foster families need to continue fostering and give children the chance to experience the stability they deserve.
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The Love Box program is not just about delivering food, gifts, or necessities—although those things are incredibly important. It’s about showing up for each other, fostering trust, and enriching lives through shared experiences. Building Relationships Beyond the Box Vanessa, a Love Box volunteer, shared a heartwarming experience that highlights how small acts of kindness and time spent together can make a world of difference. In early November, the volunteer delivered a selection of fresh, frozen, and pantry foods to her Love Box family, ensuring they had what they needed for the coming weeks. The mother, Heather, wasn’t feeling well that day, so the volunteer simply dropped off the items on the porch. Even though it was a brief interaction, it was meaningful. The connection made in that moment was enough to show that someone cared. Vanessa was also sure to celebrate the foster mama’s birthday with a surprise gift card. Often parents don’t get celebrated for their birthday - but this volunteer wanted Heather to know that she was cared for and thought of. It didn’t stop there. Just days later, the volunteer went above and beyond by taking Heather and her two young boys out for a special evening. Together with her own son, they enjoyed dinner at a local restaurant followed by a drive-through Christmas light show. The excitement in the boys’ eyes as they watched the lights flash in time with the music was priceless. For a few hours, they could forget about everyday struggles and simply enjoy the magic of the season. Beyond the fun outing, what truly made the evening special was the time spent together—the conversations, the laughter, and the shared experience. The volunteer reflected on how important it was to spend time with Heather and the boys, emphasizing that these moments of connection were far more meaningful than any material gift.  The Power of Connection in the Love Box Program
At KCMO Angels, we understand that fostering is about much more than just providing material support. While the items in our Love Box program are important, it’s the relationships we build that truly make a difference. For families like Heather’s, the time spent together—whether through shared meals, outings, or simply checking in—has the greatest impact. The trust and bond formed between volunteers and foster families create lasting memories and provide the emotional support needed for families to thrive. Fostering can be overwhelming, especially without a strong support system. 50% of foster homes close within the first year due to the emotional, financial, and logistical strain. That’s why the Love Box program is so crucial. It’s not just about delivering goods—it’s about showing up for families, offering encouragement, and helping them stay open longer. Through these consistent connections, we’re seeing foster homes provide stable, nurturing environments for children who need them most. At KCMO Angels, we’re proud to offer that support, helping keep families together and creating stronger, more resilient communities.
The First Annual BJ DeMage Halloween Shop
On September 21st, Amy attended our Halloween Shop event alongside her three children and BJ’s mother. Together, we witnessed BJ’s dream become a reality as children browsed through costumes and found the one that made them smile the brightest. For children in foster care, moments of normalcy—like picking out a Halloween costume—are essential. They allow children to feel like every other kid, to embrace the excitement and fun of childhood, and to experience traditions that give life a bit more color. BJ’s legacy was woven into every part of the event. His vision and spirit were felt in each child’s joy, and Amy’s commitment made it all possible. The dream was born that this Halloween Shop would become an annual tradition, allowing BJ’s legacy to impact more children each year. Continuing BJ’s Legacy Amy has already begun preparing for next year, sharing BJ’s story on social media to gather Halloween costumes for the 2025 BJ DeMage Halloween Shop. We are beyond honored to carry this legacy forward. BJ’s dream aligns beautifully with KCMO Angels’ mission of providing children in foster care with moments of normalcy, love, and belonging. Thank you, Amy, for your generosity, for sharing BJ’s legacy with us, and for helping to bring a bit of Halloween magic to children in foster care. Together, we’re creating a ripple effect of joy and connection, and we look forward to making the BJ DeMage Halloween Shop a beloved annual event.
 "It's moments like these that remind us of the importance of two of our program goals - relational permanency and normalcy."
We wanted to take a moment to share a heartwarming story that truly embodies the impact of your generosity and support. Just recently, one of our case managers checked in with a Love Box leader for an update on January activities, and we were touched by the consistent support he is giving this family and young boy in care. He shared that he attended not one, but two basketball games to cheer on this sweet boy experiencing foster care. Being in the stands month after month at all of his activities has had a huge positive impact on this young boy. It's moments like these that remind us of the importance of two of our program goals - relational permanency and normalcy.
Your support is instrumental in helping us achieve these program goals and making a difference in the lives of foster children and families. Together, we're building a community of support and compassion that empowers children and families in the foster care system to thrive. We have a final story to share with you from 2023 that we couldn’t leave behind. The ending quote from this Love Box Leader left us feeling grateful for all of you, and hopeful for all the continued impact we will have in the coming year. One of our Love Box Leaders, Angie, and the foster family relished in "regular" activities in December, starting with enjoying lunch together at a Mexican restaurant during the week —a cherished tradition for the foster family, despite the challenge of accommodating 11 kiddos. These moments of normalcy provided space for meaningful conversations, connection, and sharing in the children's infectious excitement for Christmas. Later in the month, Angie and her husband delivered holiday treats, including Gingerbread Man kits, which the family joyfully embraced during a special evening of bonding. The Love Box Leaders had big plans to experience Enchant KC with their foster family before the Holiday season came to an end. Once their older kids got home from college, they all decided to join in together as a big group! All 17 people absolutely loved the festive atmosphere, the dazzling Christmas light display and each and every one of them were filled with joy! Amidst the laughter and play, a seemingly small moment left a lasting impact on one of these Love Box Leaders! A sweet girl in the family - who is slow to trust - reached toward Angie asking if she would skate with her. A moment that affirmed Angie that all the moments up to this point laid a foundation of trust.  Their last meetup of the month was a visit to the foster family's home and was marked by a heartwarming gesture. Angie’s husband was able to bring two generously donated holiday food baskets from his company. Additionally, they delighted in shopping for and delivering Christmas gifts for each member of the family. Toward the end of the night, the two moms found themselves able to chat alone. Angie tells us it was a moment of connection and a chance to feel known by another mom. “I was honored she felt comfortable enough to be vulnerable with me to share how she is feeling. We were just two moms connecting on a level only moms can." These cherished moments spent with the Foster Family illuminated the true spirit of the season, reminding the Love Box Leader and her family of the profound impact of love, connection, and generosity. Their experiences with the Foster Family not only enriched their own holiday season but also underscored the transformative power of community and compassion.  We have another inspiring story that shows the profound impact of the Dare to Dream program we have at KCMO Angles. This program offers one-on-one mentorship to youth in care, empowering them to develop skills, pursue passions, and achieve their goals through supportive relationships. Recently, one of our foster youths faced a traumatic incident that led her to withdraw from activities she once cherished. Despite her disengagement, our steadfast mentor remained by her side, offering various options to reignite her joy. Months passed, and a breakthrough occurred when the youth finally agreed to spend a day creating and painting pottery with her mentor. Their time together was nothing short of magical, as they bonded over their shared love for art and painting. Reflecting on their experience, our Dare to Dream mentor expressed, "I am truly looking forward to our next hangout. We plan to have dinner together, hoping to dig a little deeper with each other. I appreciate the invaluable support and wisdom the KCMO Angels case manager has offered me throughout this journey with Penny." This heartwarming story exemplifies the transformative power of consistent support and encouragement in our Dare to Dream program. It showcases the resilience and potential for positive change in the lives of these remarkable youth. Your continued support fuels our ability to create these meaningful connections and foster resilience in our community's youth. Thank you for being a crucial part of our journey towards building brighter futures. 
A note from our executive director. I hope this message finds you well and ready for the holiday season! At our recent team meeting I couldn't help but feel such deep gratitude for all the ways we're helping children & families in our community. So today, I'd love to tell you about a special moment from a recent Love Box leader's visit with a family. It's a beautiful example of the care and dedication our volunteers give each and every family we support. During this monthly meetup our Love Box leader Kathy arrived at her foster family’s home with a wonderful spread - chicken white bean chili, salad, and a delightful pumpkin cake. As the foster parents tended to their growing family, the age old challenge presented itself -who’s going to hold this sweet newborn so the parents can enjoy the meal? Well naturally our Love Box leader jumped in and immediately volunteered. Who doesn’t love holding a cute new baby?! This very simple gesture not only allowed for a fostering family to enjoy a meal together, but a rare moment of calm in a normally very busy weeknight. Kathy shared that it was truly magical. To sit back and watch the children enjoy not only the meal, but the uninterrupted time together at the table. Your unwavering support allows us to create these invaluable connections and provide normalcy to our families. Every gesture, every meal, every “Love Box” strengthens our resolve to foster a supportive environment for these deserving families. When our fostering community feels supported, they can continue the very important work of fostering. Thank you for standing by us and making these moments of compassion and support possible. Your generosity continues to be the cornerstone of hope and empowerment for families within our community. With gratitude, Anne Walton 
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